Love, Success, and Clarity

Opening thoughts: My intentions for this year is centered on inviting more love, success, and clarity into my life. These days I find myself feeling very uncomfortable with complacency and every day routine. I want to be heavy on my empty mind and ‘law of attraction’ shit while putting in the work for the life I truly want and deserve..

Besides catching up on ‘The Walking Dead’- Season 10, ‘Black Lightning’- Season 4, the 3rd season of ‘Good Girls’, and watching old episodes of ‘My 600lb Life’, here are the new shows that have caught my attention.

New T.V. Shows

  1. Behind Her Eyes. A psychological thriller. “A single mother enters a world of twisted mind games when she begins an affair with her psychiatrist boss while secretly befriending his mysterious wife.”- Netflix.
  2. Crime Scene: The Vanishing at the Cecil Hotel. “The notorious Cecil Hotel grows in infamy when guest Elisa Lam vanishes. From the creator of “The Ted Bundy Tapes,” a dive into crime’s darkest places.”- Netflix. I’m still trying to make sense of this one.

New Movies // Film

  1. Judas and The Black Messiah. “Fred Hampton, a young, charismatic activist, becomes Chairman of the Illinois chapter of the Black Panther Party — putting him directly in the crosshairs of the government, the FBI, and the Chicago Police. But to destroy the revolution, the authorities are going to need a man on the inside.”- HBO Max.
  2. Outside The Wire. “In the near future, a drone pilot sent into a war zone finds himself paired with a top-secret android officer on a mission to stop a nuclear attack.”- Netflix.
  3. I Care A lot. “A court-appointed legal guardian defrauds her older clients and traps them under her care. But her latest mark comes with some unexpected baggage.”- Netflix.
  4. Malcolm & Marie. “As a filmmaker and his girlfriend return home from his movie premiere, smoldering tensions and painful revelations push them toward a romantic reckoning.”- Netflix. Check out Shan Boody’s: 3 Things You Might Have Missed in Malcolm & Marie, she really puts things into perspective.
  5. To All The Boys: Always And Forever. “Senior year of high school takes center stage as Lara Jean returns from a family trip to Korea and considers her college plans — with and without Peter.”- Netflix.

Podcast Episodes

  1. ‘There’s Always a Ladder’ podcast, Episode 3: We Need Better Sex Education. Absolutely loved this episode! These are the type of conversations I needed to have years ago.

I just got my heart broken and this is the season finale There's Always a Ladder

I’m the only person I know who gets their heart broken and runs to a microphone to express the revelations and downloads they’ve received because of it lol. regardless, i hope you all have enjoyed the first season of "There's Always a Ladder”! I truly appreciate every stream, share, and subscriber ❤ ill see you guys next season! you can find me on instagram and twitter @etherealtrinty and subscribe to my YouTube channel:
  1. I just got my heart broken and this is the season finale
  2. my experience with hypnotherapy ft. my hypnotherapist!
  3. there's no right or wrong way to do your spiritual journey
  4. sometimes life's a mess, and that's okay!
  5. we grew up with narcissistic parents

2. ‘The Self Love Fix’ podcast, Episode 89: Why you need a morning routine. Includes great productive ideas to incorporate into your morning routine like: guided meditation, journaling, matcha green tea, making time to sit down and eat, + more.

99. Ego, Codependency, & Relationships The Self Love Fix

Hey sis! This week we are talking all about the role of the ego in codependency and how shame & people pleasing keeps us from thriving in life like we DESERVE to. Make sure to register for Nothing Was the Same Week here, a week of *free* live events (hosted by me!) designed to help you. Reclaim. Who. TF. You. Are. Comments? Business Inquiries? Email the team: IG: @theselflovefix.
  1. 99. Ego, Codependency, & Relationships
  2. 98. Abandonment, Re-parenting, & Relationships
  3. Episode 97: [Ex Files] I’ll never find someone like them
  4. 96. [Ex Files Pt 2] But they were SO great in the beginning
  5. 94. [Ex Files] Trauma Bonds & Security in Relationships

3. Brown Girl Self-Care, Episode: Boundaries on the job and making career changes with lawyer Toya Gavin. If you often feel depleted by the end of the work day, every day, you may need to consider listening to this episode. It really got me together chile.

Self-Care Looks Like Saying "No" Without Guilt When Your Job Wants You To Travel Or Do After-Hours Events Brown Girl Self-Care

Have you ever been shamed or guilted into attending potlucks, after-hours  events or traveling for your job?  I was for quite some time until I took a firm stand, set a boundary said I would only participate when I felt it was right for me.  I talk about that in todays episode!
  1. Self-Care Looks Like Saying "No" Without Guilt When Your Job Wants You To Travel Or Do After-Hours Events
  2. Changing your mindset to encourage more awareness and abundance Pt 1
  3. Identifying Trauma and How it Affects Our Relationships With Kobe Campbell
  4. The ABC's of what I am through Christ
  5. Village Vibe: I Got Used To Living With My Struggle

4. ‘The Introverts Guide to’ podcast, Episode 56- Introvert Super Powers. I am already aware of most of these super powers but one of the biggest take aways I got from this episode is not letting people write your narrative and never allow people to tell you who YOU are as a person.

E59 The Introvert's Guide To…Routines The Introvert's Guide to…

In this episode, Jess and Phil discuss the importance of Routines, and how they can be very helpful for the introvert. Also: Phil learns a "horrifying" secret about Jess. Links in this episode:
  1. E59 The Introvert's Guide To…Routines
  2. E58 The Introvert's Guide To…The Myers-Briggs test
  3. E57 The Introvert's Guide To…Dealing With Extroverted Family
  4. E56 The Introvert's Guide To…Introvert "Super Powers"
  5. E55 The Introvert's Guide To…Answers Your Questions

5. ‘Supernatural with Ashley Flowers. My newest podcast subscription. I’m a sucker for the true crime stories. Episodes I’ve listened to so far are: ‘HAUNTED: The Loudun Possessions’ and the most current, ‘MYSTICAL: The Bosco Murders’.

THE UNKNOWN: Green Children of Woolpit Supernatural with Ashley Flowers

In a 12th-century English village, farmers discovered two young children wandering alone in the woods. The kids’ unrecognizable clothing and language, along with their startling green complexions, led many to wonder if the people of Woolpit had a genuine encounter with fairies…
  1. THE UNKNOWN: Green Children of Woolpit
  2. MYSTICAL: Nicolas Flamel
  3. ALIEN: The Falcon Lake Incident
  4. DISAPPEARED: Barbara Newhall Follett
  5. MYSTICAL: The Aberfan Premonitions

New Music Favorites

Top Albums:

  1. Lucky Daye- Table for Two. I’ve been waiting on new music from him and he deliverdtt!
  2. Tiana Major9- Major Mantras. Beautiful inspiring affirmations that I listen to every day now.
  3. Judas and The Black Messiah: The Inspired Album. I love the opening interlude/song by Fred Hampton Jr.
  4. Black Coffee- Subconsciously. The latest feel good dance album.
  5. SG Lewis- times. SG Lewis don’t miss!

Top Singles:

  1. Brent Faiyaz, DJ Dahi ft.Tyler, The Creator- Gravity. Brent Faiyaz’s music has been speaking life into my soul lately. He’s my favorite male artist.
  2. Cardi B- UP. A fun, catchy bop. I really enjoy watching all the UP dance challenges on social media.
  3. THEY ft. Kiana Lede- Count Me In. “I can be that touch when you need it, sex when you feenin’, love for ya feelings.”
  4. Lion Babe- Native New Yorker. Groovy.
  5. Nasty C & Ari Lennox- Black And White. “You come first like rent due, I see your potential.”

Can we also talk about Chloe & Halle’s sexy futuristic ‘Ungodly Hour’ music video?! wow. Give them their flowers and awards already!

Random // Other Favorites.

  1. Black surgical face masks. // I’m tired of the boring basic blue masks that I wear at work every single day so I picked up some sleek black ones that will match with every outfit (from Amazon) to wear on the weekend’s.
  2. Enjoying the perks of an Amazon prime membership. // Super fast same day or overnight delivery, discounts, and access to Prime Video.
  3. Dunkin Donuts iced coffee is literally CRACK but please don’t drink it after 4pm. I was awake and wide eyed at 3am for no reason. Thank God it was a Saturday night.
  4. I am a Papyrophilic. // I always get this very weird over joyous super inspired feeling when I get new office supplies/stationery. I recently found out that my obsession is called: Papyrophilia. Last weekend, I went to Walmart and picked up some gel pens, and several new journals. One journal for weekly journaling, one for manifesting/spiritual notes, one for writing creative ideas, and one for jotting down business + career goals/planning.
  5. I’m restocked on all my essential vitamins.
  6. Short acrylic nail sets are cute too. // I treated myself to a mani for Valentines Day.

That’s all for now. I’ll report back next month- March 31st with new favorites!

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love always,


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