Love, Success, and Clarity

Opening thoughts: My intentions for this year is centered on inviting more love, success, and clarity into my life. These days I find myself feeling very uncomfortable with complacency and every day routine. I want to be heavy on my empty mind and ‘law of attraction’ shit while putting in the work for the life I truly want and deserve..

Besides catching up on ‘The Walking Dead’- Season 10, ‘Black Lightning’- Season 4, the 3rd season of ‘Good Girls’, and watching old episodes of ‘My 600lb Life’, here are the new shows that have caught my attention.

New T.V. Shows

  1. Behind Her Eyes. A psychological thriller. “A single mother enters a world of twisted mind games when she begins an affair with her psychiatrist boss while secretly befriending his mysterious wife.”- Netflix.
  2. Crime Scene: The Vanishing at the Cecil Hotel. “The notorious Cecil Hotel grows in infamy when guest Elisa Lam vanishes. From the creator of “The Ted Bundy Tapes,” a dive into crime’s darkest places.”- Netflix. I’m still trying to make sense of this one.

New Movies // Film

  1. Judas and The Black Messiah. “Fred Hampton, a young, charismatic activist, becomes Chairman of the Illinois chapter of the Black Panther Party — putting him directly in the crosshairs of the government, the FBI, and the Chicago Police. But to destroy the revolution, the authorities are going to need a man on the inside.”- HBO Max.
  2. Outside The Wire. “In the near future, a drone pilot sent into a war zone finds himself paired with a top-secret android officer on a mission to stop a nuclear attack.”- Netflix.
  3. I Care A lot. “A court-appointed legal guardian defrauds her older clients and traps them under her care. But her latest mark comes with some unexpected baggage.”- Netflix.
  4. Malcolm & Marie. “As a filmmaker and his girlfriend return home from his movie premiere, smoldering tensions and painful revelations push them toward a romantic reckoning.”- Netflix. Check out Shan Boody’s: 3 Things You Might Have Missed in Malcolm & Marie, she really puts things into perspective.
  5. To All The Boys: Always And Forever. “Senior year of high school takes center stage as Lara Jean returns from a family trip to Korea and considers her college plans — with and without Peter.”- Netflix.

Podcast Episodes

  1. ‘There’s Always a Ladder’ podcast, Episode 3: We Need Better Sex Education. Absolutely loved this episode! These are the type of conversations I needed to have years ago.

i'm not captian save a hoe There's Always a Ladder

Today I brought my lovely friends on as special guests so that we can discuss the issues we’ve had in relationships when dealing with emotionally avoidant people. You can find them on all platforms using the links below 🙂 Mahrie’s Instagram: Mahrie’s Poetry Page:  Ari’s Instagram: Ari’s Podcast: Ari’s Brand:  Check out The HoneyCuff Co and use code “Trinity” for 20% off your order! Check out my tarot reader, Troy:
  1. i'm not captian save a hoe
  2. the magic conch is telling me to do nothing
  3. i finally watched The Matrix, we've got a lot to talk about
  4. I just got my heart broken and this is the season finale
  5. my experience with hypnotherapy ft. my hypnotherapist!

2. ‘The Self Love Fix’ podcast, Episode 89: Why you need a morning routine. Includes great productive ideas to incorporate into your morning routine like: guided meditation, journaling, matcha green tea, making time to sit down and eat, + more.

You Are More Than Worthy The Self Love Fix

In this episode, we’ll be talking about what happens when you choose self love over codependency. What does your life actually look like when you choose to believe in your worthiness?   Some points we’ll discuss include: Trusting Your Instincts Shattering Limiting Beliefs Discover True Confidence Are you ready to dive into your habits of codependency in order to start putting yourself first? Enroll in Self Love Over Codependency today to learn how to shift from self-doubt to worthiness and DEEP levels of self-trust! Click here to join (Doors will close September 24th) If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love.   CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website
  1. You Are More Than Worthy
  2. NWTSW Day 4 – Fear vs. Intuition, Self-trust, & Overcoming Shame
  3. NWTSW Day 3 – Unshakable Self-trust & Worthiness
  4. It's Time to Start Your Journey in Choosing Self Love Over Codependency
  5. NWTSW Day 2 – Abandonment Wounds & Trusting in Your Worthiness

3. Brown Girl Self-Care, Episode: Boundaries on the job and making career changes with lawyer Toya Gavin. If you often feel depleted by the end of the work day, every day, you may need to consider listening to this episode. It really got me together chile.

6 Tricks To Being More Consistent In Life Brown Girl Self-Care

I've got a listener question for you today.  Shout out to Tamia for being an awesome listener of the show and for writing to me at . This episode is all about being consistent during the times we don't want to be. Want some self-care love by way of text messages that come directly from me?  Send the word WORTHY to 833-774-1547. There is still time to join us for the Waistbeads + Wine (Virtual) Event.  Click here to get your ticket today and I'll see you there. 
  1. 6 Tricks To Being More Consistent In Life
  2. 5 Things The Tension I Carried Around Told Me
  3. Hiding Your Greatness Won't Always Be An Option. Then What?
  4. The Other Side of "Pretty Privilege" With Vlogger Oh! Stephco
  5. Today, We Rest!

4. ‘The Introverts Guide to’ podcast, Episode 56- Introvert Super Powers. I am already aware of most of these super powers but one of the biggest take aways I got from this episode is not letting people write your narrative and never allow people to tell you who YOU are as a person.

E68 The Introvert's Guide to…Going Back to the Office The Introvert's Guide to…

In this episode, Jess and Phil discuss returning to the office after a year and a half of working from home and provide some helpful tips on how to deal with that return. Links in this episode:
  1. E68 The Introvert's Guide to…Going Back to the Office
  2. E67 The Introvert's Guide to…Creativity (with author Meghan Rogers)
  3. E66 The Introvert's Guide to…Perfectionism
  4. E65 The Introvert's Guide to…Defying Expectations
  5. E64 The Introvert's Guide to…Zoom Fatigue

5. ‘Supernatural with Ashley Flowers. My newest podcast subscription. I’m a sucker for the true crime stories. Episodes I’ve listened to so far are: ‘HAUNTED: The Loudun Possessions’ and the most current, ‘MYSTICAL: The Bosco Murders’.

MYSTICAL: Bridey Murphy Supernatural with Ashley Flowers

When a housewife in the U.S. undergoes hypnosis in 1952, she recalls detailed memories of a past life in 19th-century Ireland.  To view this episode’s full list of sources, please visit Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
  1. MYSTICAL: Bridey Murphy
  2. CONSPIRACY: Bob Lazar
  3. HAUNTED: The Winchester Mystery House
  4. THE UNKNOWN: Gef the Talking Mongoose
  5. CONSPIRACY: Philip Taylor Kramer

New Music Favorites

Top Albums:

  1. Lucky Daye- Table for Two. I’ve been waiting on new music from him and he deliverdtt!
  2. Tiana Major9- Major Mantras. Beautiful inspiring affirmations that I listen to every day now.
  3. Judas and The Black Messiah: The Inspired Album. I love the opening interlude/song by Fred Hampton Jr.
  4. Black Coffee- Subconsciously. The latest feel good dance album.
  5. SG Lewis- times. SG Lewis don’t miss!

Top Singles:

  1. Brent Faiyaz, DJ Dahi ft.Tyler, The Creator- Gravity. Brent Faiyaz’s music has been speaking life into my soul lately. He’s my favorite male artist.
  2. Cardi B- UP. A fun, catchy bop. I really enjoy watching all the UP dance challenges on social media.
  3. THEY ft. Kiana Lede- Count Me In. “I can be that touch when you need it, sex when you feenin’, love for ya feelings.”
  4. Lion Babe- Native New Yorker. Groovy.
  5. Nasty C & Ari Lennox- Black And White. “You come first like rent due, I see your potential.”

Can we also talk about Chloe & Halle’s sexy futuristic ‘Ungodly Hour’ music video?! wow. Give them their flowers and awards already!

Random // Other Favorites.

  1. Black surgical face masks. // I’m tired of the boring basic blue masks that I wear at work every single day so I picked up some sleek black ones that will match with every outfit (from Amazon) to wear on the weekend’s.
  2. Enjoying the perks of an Amazon prime membership. // Super fast same day or overnight delivery, discounts, and access to Prime Video.
  3. Dunkin Donuts iced coffee is literally CRACK but please don’t drink it after 4pm. I was awake and wide eyed at 3am for no reason. Thank God it was a Saturday night.
  4. I am a Papyrophilic. // I always get this very weird over joyous super inspired feeling when I get new office supplies/stationery. I recently found out that my obsession is called: Papyrophilia. Last weekend, I went to Walmart and picked up some gel pens, and several new journals. One journal for weekly journaling, one for manifesting/spiritual notes, one for writing creative ideas, and one for jotting down business + career goals/planning.
  5. I’m restocked on all my essential vitamins.
  6. Short acrylic nail sets are cute too. // I treated myself to a mani for Valentines Day.

That’s all for now. I’ll report back next month- March 31st with new favorites!

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love always,

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Every since I was in Elementary school, I always kept a diary. I guess you can say, as soon as I learned how to spell and form sentences- I never stopped. Writing is a true passion for me and the cheapest form of therapy. This blog was created as my digital diary and the only one I’m willing to share with the world.

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